It's Not Him, It's You: The Truth You May Not Want - but Need - to Hear

"The only dating book you will ever need!" -A reader

"The most useful advice book on relationships I've ever read" -An Amazon reviewer

"Amazingly straightforward advice." -Ashley L.


Tired of gamey, manipulative dating advice for women?
Seeking to UNDERSTAND men, rather than condemn them?
Looking to ENJOY dating, rather than dread it? 

You've come to the right place!


During the early stages of dating, many women unknowingly make one or more fundamental mistakes that hinder their ability to date successfully and find the man of their dreams. Internationally acclaimed "It's Not Him, It's You" will identify each of these Top 10 mistakes, and show you how to fix them!

With Dr. Christie Hartman as your guide, you'll learn how to put this groundbreaking research to work for you. You'll learn that you, as a woman:

- Have the advantage over men in the dating world
- Should make the first move with men–not wait for them to act
- Can detect if a guy is truly interested in you, even before you go out with him
Anyone can tell you to avoid sex on the first date, or to wear a skirt, or to flirt a lot. This book gives you what you really need: the research-based strategies you need to make dating work for you–and find the happiness you deserve!